This is the truth the whole truth and real text from a man who makes his living preying on woman on the Internet. Except this time the cards are turned.... and he is the prey.
My previous blog about Social predators is a must read so you get the gist of circumstances that led up to this writing. Maybe I can spare my sisters out there hurt, even one, from ever being a victim.
December 28, 2010
Many years ago I loved someone very much, and he loved me. The problem was a hacker came between us and I thought he was the hacker... so I hurt him not knowing. I refused to be with him. I found out later that the hacker did not speak Spanish..but Angel Gilbert Gaxiola did. That is why this time I gave the benefit of the doubt to this guy Alvise I met online.
This is a true story.
It was early and as a clairvoyant I could feel that in order for me to heal and resolve this issue once and for all I had to engage the creature once more. The creature is the hacker, the social predator. Honestly, you can respect Robin Hood., he stole from the rich and gave to the poor. But this guy here, this alvisealonso@yahoo.com (real email by the way)? Well? he steals money from woman and their dignity.
After baiting him with darling, and I love you, he finally came clean that he does not speak a word of Italian (which he did to bait you before) . He says he wants power..ask if you know Ochun. Ochun is a very powerful god I said. He ask you to send his son (yeah not for real) a play station. So you ask for an address to send it.
He of course cannot give you an address. But he continues with the I love you until you give him the gift. This blog. You send him here. You realize you have been dealing with a kid all along, and not a smart one at that.
By now he is livid and threatens you.You of course stay calm and say well darling maybe that love story you wrote to me about and said I would one day write when we first met online well I decided to do just that.
Guess what? I wrote it. Here it is. LOL
Enyoy.
What is this story's moral?
Ladies never feel bad about having an experience like this. Never be ashamed that you made every effort to be loved and respected. Honestly people do find romance online. there are good people out there.
Just because some wacko plays head games that does not mean you attracted this wacko nor like the law of attraction states. God knows what he is doing . Maybe, just maybe there is a higher purpose to this. Maybe I will be asked to provide this story and it will become a movie...a book..a prayer of protection . Or maybe I saved one of my sisters from this.
Peter Shankman says on his blog:
Be careful, people. In this day and age, you can’t afford not to.
True words.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Monday, December 27, 2010
Life's GPS
Did you ever wish to know exactly where you are and where you are going in every aspect of your life?
Now you can.
I have researched this for 30 years and here is what will make a difference in your life.
There is a life Compass and you can recognize what and where you are based on certain factors. Once you know you can change them.
First you must know. Then you must choose.
Built in within the universe are common denominators. Things that both continue to happen or people and places that you return to , think about or refer too.
It takes awareness of these factors and here is how you can determine where you are and where you choose to be and whom you choose to be.
We have many writers throughout history and they all say the same thing: THE PRESENT IS THE POINT OF POWER. That is more than awareness , this must be pure self inventory.
The Egyptians knew this. Over a massive pyramid they wrote : MAN ,KNOW THYSELF . If I were to write this today I would write Woman and Man, know thyself.
Let’s take it one step further. Everything is energy and energy vibrates and has frequency.
Each zodiac sign has and vibrates at a certain frequency.
Each numerological sign has frequency.
What you are going through has a frequency, each thing you want to accomplish also has frequency because your thoughts can be measured and now are.
This is just the tip of the iceberg.
Ok what exactly does that mean and how does it relate to you?
Here is an example;
After many years away I returned to Portland and felt like I never had left. Some of my friends had not grown or changed a bit, some were open to change but after meeting me again they realized they were either living at the fulcrum or headed on a downward spiral. These same friends and acquaintances were living their lives unaware. I was of course was awake.
At first I had no interests in their lives for I felt they were responsible for their own. Then a miracle happened again in my life. I came to understand that they meant more to me and I too them, we were really each other’s mirror.
As I looked at myself in their mirror I saw and felt good about the changes I had made in my life and assured them they would not corrupt me unless I wanted them too. As they looked at themselves in my mirror they saw how much more they could be living life, there was than the next bar, the next lay and that their lives were precious. Indeed they are beautiful and phenomenal.
My new roommate referred me to another friend of hers whom I had not met. She was wheel chair bound. I had committed to help her during the week with cleaning and cooking.
What was interesting was that during my interview I discovered that my interviewer was responsible for getting an ex boss of mine fired who incidentally many years ago fired me unjustifiably.
We all seem to dismiss this with "Oh small world isn’t it. But it is more than this. Not that the world is small it is that you attracted this person to fulfill something in you and you in them. Like you had vacant apartment in your heart that finally was being rented.
There I was at the interview happy to take the job. I was dumb struck. Unbelievable!! The lady I was going to be working for had fulfilled my life by being my karmic avenger against my ex boss. I was of course so grateful to her for what she had done for me and yet did not know me. Is that crazy or what?
It all began to make sense. Everything in my life, why I choose to live where I lived, what I choose to focus on.
Over the years I discovered a perfect system of order and manifestation. It was so precise that I was even floored on many occasions as to how and why it worked perfectly.
How to tell where you are. It starts with awareness but becomes more. It must become SELF INVENTORY.
1. Pay attention to the astrological signs coming into your life especially if they come into your life in droves. If you meet a lot of Scorpios for example in your life it means something very profound. Scorpio is the greatest example of the use of power in every aspect. Or maybe you may be attracting a very adept intimate partner you need.
2. So if you meet a Scorpio or lots of them it means you are learning to use power for example.
3. When you have Capricorns in your life it is because at this stage of your life you are meant to learn about the discipline of God and that discipline refers to business too.
4. When you need to refine your life you meet classy Libra’s,
5. Want to get something done ASAP- Aries
6. And so on and so on
7. When you attract a lot of your own sign i.e.: You area Sagittarius and you meet lots of Sagittarius it has to do with your being what you came here to be. It also helps to balance you as your own sun sign comes into your life to re"mind "you who you are deep down.
8. This is pure logic. The massive ocean is affected by the moon and the planets in a particular alignment !!!Get a clue. We are 90% water logically it has to affect us also.
Another guide as to where you are is what are others doing that are around you? What kinds of friends do you have? What are they constantly talking about that you wish to avoid that seems to bother you (that is a clue too) or what is it you need to put your attention to or away from?
That will also give you a clue as to where you are on the compass.
Need to accomplish something in your life but do not know how?
Better than intend it specify it !
Study the signs and just think on them, see what they have to offer and are attracted to and bring them in. It is that simple. It is like fishing in the zodiac for whatever it is you need to learn and when.
Here is a brief list of the qualities of each sign :
Aries Absolute fearlessness, even ferocity, Mars also represents energy, ambition, and action. Simple need to get something done? Find an Aries.
Want it yesterday? Find an Aries
Taurus: Symbolize peace and love. Builder, restorer, and painstakingly patient, open-armed kindness, love to hug and be hugged. Forthright in your conversation. Need to make a point with love? Find a Taurus. Want to make a presentation at your corporation but lack courage or fear you may e perceived in a not positive light? Find a Taurus. Creativity, friendship. Stability.
Note: For business presentations find a Capricorn or Virgo. They are detail babies.
Gemini: Want clarity? Want mindful l quick solutions or just tactful way to say things clearly? Find a Gemini. Want to defend yourself precisely? Speak with intention and clarity? Want to break free of your boring life? Find a Gemini. Need a different honest perspective? Find a Gemini. Want to change your personality and be more open? Find a Gemini. Need variety? Find a Gemini. Want to create a big presentation? Find a Gemini or Saggie they can help you pull it off.
Cancer Need sensitivity training, sweetness, kindness, and an ear that will listen? Cancers. Compassion masters. But beware if they sink into their shells.
Leo: How about leadership qualities? Find a Leo. These kitties are fierce but can be loyal to you and to themselves. Highly intelligent and friendly. Want to pull off something really , really big? Find a Leo.
Virgo: When it has to be done right and perfect and precise find a Virgo. They go out of their way to be of service to others. Analysis and logic—details more than any other sign Have great work ethics, disciplined, highly organized, go the extra mile-Virgos
Libra: Friendly, warm and gentle. Need beauty and romance and friendship? Have to decorate ? Need balance, Harmony? Libra’s strength. Want absolute sweetness? Libra. Kindness? Libra’s . Just want beauty or beautiful? Libra’s always. Diplomat. Want conflict resolution? Libra’s are masters at finding a happy medium, harmony, and balance.
Scorpio: They are power, love, passion and if you find yourself with nothing they are ones to make you create from nothing ANYTHING. Just be loyal to them and they will place the world at your feet. Yes you can trust Scorpies if you are trustworthy. You will always get a straight no nonsense answer from a Scorpie. They are choosy who they give their time too. But they are worth all of your effort. Purposeful energy. Natural alchemists.
Sagittarius: Sagittarius: Think big, the whole world is your playground, and everyone is your friend. You have no time or interest in details—save that for Virgo—you see the big picture, and you think in bold strokes. Are you bored? Want to solve a problem? Find a fund loving Sag. Just need a
good friend? Need a change of pace, space and to be cheerful? Find a Sag. Want the truth about anything? Find a Sag. Feel lost with no direction? These archers are direction masters they can steer you in the right direction. Passionate little critters and they are fun bedmates. Problem solvers, great mentors, speakers. Their tongues dance of truth and integrity. Logical and convincing speakers.
Capricorn: Not sure if you have what it takes to get it done? Find a goat. Want intimacy, find a goat. Not sure how to start that business venture or how to keep it once you start it? Find a goat. Status and wealth. Find a goat. You will like them once you get past their stoic nature. They are so wonderful. Did you recently move and not sure what to do? Find a goat. No matter where they are they can accomplish anything and do. They embody the phrase" Grow where you are planted. " They are very centered. Love sparingly but when they do, they do 100%.
Aquarius The world's humanitarians. Want to make a difference for the betterment of humankind? Need political or social leadership skills? Want to start a cause? A Health clinic to help others? Logical, scientific mind.
Pisces: Wow. They have no boundaries. Joy for life. The most free-spirited sign of all, and the most aware of experiencing all that life has to offer, right here right now. They are clear and precise and smoky lovers and friends. They love you down to the core. They see no obstacles, if you do they tell you exactly how to get around them. Always keep these fish babies around they are marvelous. Hint: Be patient, forgiving and make sure your kind to them. Naturally more intuitive than all other signs—perhaps even psychic.
Now you can.
I have researched this for 30 years and here is what will make a difference in your life.
There is a life Compass and you can recognize what and where you are based on certain factors. Once you know you can change them.
First you must know. Then you must choose.
Built in within the universe are common denominators. Things that both continue to happen or people and places that you return to , think about or refer too.
It takes awareness of these factors and here is how you can determine where you are and where you choose to be and whom you choose to be.
We have many writers throughout history and they all say the same thing: THE PRESENT IS THE POINT OF POWER. That is more than awareness , this must be pure self inventory.
The Egyptians knew this. Over a massive pyramid they wrote : MAN ,KNOW THYSELF . If I were to write this today I would write Woman and Man, know thyself.
Let’s take it one step further. Everything is energy and energy vibrates and has frequency.
Each zodiac sign has and vibrates at a certain frequency.
Each numerological sign has frequency.
What you are going through has a frequency, each thing you want to accomplish also has frequency because your thoughts can be measured and now are.
This is just the tip of the iceberg.
Ok what exactly does that mean and how does it relate to you?
Here is an example;
After many years away I returned to Portland and felt like I never had left. Some of my friends had not grown or changed a bit, some were open to change but after meeting me again they realized they were either living at the fulcrum or headed on a downward spiral. These same friends and acquaintances were living their lives unaware. I was of course was awake.
At first I had no interests in their lives for I felt they were responsible for their own. Then a miracle happened again in my life. I came to understand that they meant more to me and I too them, we were really each other’s mirror.
As I looked at myself in their mirror I saw and felt good about the changes I had made in my life and assured them they would not corrupt me unless I wanted them too. As they looked at themselves in my mirror they saw how much more they could be living life, there was than the next bar, the next lay and that their lives were precious. Indeed they are beautiful and phenomenal.
My new roommate referred me to another friend of hers whom I had not met. She was wheel chair bound. I had committed to help her during the week with cleaning and cooking.
What was interesting was that during my interview I discovered that my interviewer was responsible for getting an ex boss of mine fired who incidentally many years ago fired me unjustifiably.
We all seem to dismiss this with "Oh small world isn’t it. But it is more than this. Not that the world is small it is that you attracted this person to fulfill something in you and you in them. Like you had vacant apartment in your heart that finally was being rented.
There I was at the interview happy to take the job. I was dumb struck. Unbelievable!! The lady I was going to be working for had fulfilled my life by being my karmic avenger against my ex boss. I was of course so grateful to her for what she had done for me and yet did not know me. Is that crazy or what?
It all began to make sense. Everything in my life, why I choose to live where I lived, what I choose to focus on.
Over the years I discovered a perfect system of order and manifestation. It was so precise that I was even floored on many occasions as to how and why it worked perfectly.
How to tell where you are. It starts with awareness but becomes more. It must become SELF INVENTORY.
1. Pay attention to the astrological signs coming into your life especially if they come into your life in droves. If you meet a lot of Scorpios for example in your life it means something very profound. Scorpio is the greatest example of the use of power in every aspect. Or maybe you may be attracting a very adept intimate partner you need.
2. So if you meet a Scorpio or lots of them it means you are learning to use power for example.
3. When you have Capricorns in your life it is because at this stage of your life you are meant to learn about the discipline of God and that discipline refers to business too.
4. When you need to refine your life you meet classy Libra’s,
5. Want to get something done ASAP- Aries
6. And so on and so on
7. When you attract a lot of your own sign i.e.: You area Sagittarius and you meet lots of Sagittarius it has to do with your being what you came here to be. It also helps to balance you as your own sun sign comes into your life to re"mind "you who you are deep down.
8. This is pure logic. The massive ocean is affected by the moon and the planets in a particular alignment !!!Get a clue. We are 90% water logically it has to affect us also.
Another guide as to where you are is what are others doing that are around you? What kinds of friends do you have? What are they constantly talking about that you wish to avoid that seems to bother you (that is a clue too) or what is it you need to put your attention to or away from?
That will also give you a clue as to where you are on the compass.
Need to accomplish something in your life but do not know how?
Better than intend it specify it !
Study the signs and just think on them, see what they have to offer and are attracted to and bring them in. It is that simple. It is like fishing in the zodiac for whatever it is you need to learn and when.
Here is a brief list of the qualities of each sign :
Aries Absolute fearlessness, even ferocity, Mars also represents energy, ambition, and action. Simple need to get something done? Find an Aries.
Want it yesterday? Find an Aries
Taurus: Symbolize peace and love. Builder, restorer, and painstakingly patient, open-armed kindness, love to hug and be hugged. Forthright in your conversation. Need to make a point with love? Find a Taurus. Want to make a presentation at your corporation but lack courage or fear you may e perceived in a not positive light? Find a Taurus. Creativity, friendship. Stability.
Note: For business presentations find a Capricorn or Virgo. They are detail babies.
Gemini: Want clarity? Want mindful l quick solutions or just tactful way to say things clearly? Find a Gemini. Want to defend yourself precisely? Speak with intention and clarity? Want to break free of your boring life? Find a Gemini. Need a different honest perspective? Find a Gemini. Want to change your personality and be more open? Find a Gemini. Need variety? Find a Gemini. Want to create a big presentation? Find a Gemini or Saggie they can help you pull it off.
Cancer Need sensitivity training, sweetness, kindness, and an ear that will listen? Cancers. Compassion masters. But beware if they sink into their shells.
Leo: How about leadership qualities? Find a Leo. These kitties are fierce but can be loyal to you and to themselves. Highly intelligent and friendly. Want to pull off something really , really big? Find a Leo.
Virgo: When it has to be done right and perfect and precise find a Virgo. They go out of their way to be of service to others. Analysis and logic—details more than any other sign Have great work ethics, disciplined, highly organized, go the extra mile-Virgos
Libra: Friendly, warm and gentle. Need beauty and romance and friendship? Have to decorate ? Need balance, Harmony? Libra’s strength. Want absolute sweetness? Libra. Kindness? Libra’s . Just want beauty or beautiful? Libra’s always. Diplomat. Want conflict resolution? Libra’s are masters at finding a happy medium, harmony, and balance.
Scorpio: They are power, love, passion and if you find yourself with nothing they are ones to make you create from nothing ANYTHING. Just be loyal to them and they will place the world at your feet. Yes you can trust Scorpies if you are trustworthy. You will always get a straight no nonsense answer from a Scorpie. They are choosy who they give their time too. But they are worth all of your effort. Purposeful energy. Natural alchemists.
Sagittarius: Sagittarius: Think big, the whole world is your playground, and everyone is your friend. You have no time or interest in details—save that for Virgo—you see the big picture, and you think in bold strokes. Are you bored? Want to solve a problem? Find a fund loving Sag. Just need a
good friend? Need a change of pace, space and to be cheerful? Find a Sag. Want the truth about anything? Find a Sag. Feel lost with no direction? These archers are direction masters they can steer you in the right direction. Passionate little critters and they are fun bedmates. Problem solvers, great mentors, speakers. Their tongues dance of truth and integrity. Logical and convincing speakers.
Capricorn: Not sure if you have what it takes to get it done? Find a goat. Want intimacy, find a goat. Not sure how to start that business venture or how to keep it once you start it? Find a goat. Status and wealth. Find a goat. You will like them once you get past their stoic nature. They are so wonderful. Did you recently move and not sure what to do? Find a goat. No matter where they are they can accomplish anything and do. They embody the phrase" Grow where you are planted. " They are very centered. Love sparingly but when they do, they do 100%.
Aquarius The world's humanitarians. Want to make a difference for the betterment of humankind? Need political or social leadership skills? Want to start a cause? A Health clinic to help others? Logical, scientific mind.
Pisces: Wow. They have no boundaries. Joy for life. The most free-spirited sign of all, and the most aware of experiencing all that life has to offer, right here right now. They are clear and precise and smoky lovers and friends. They love you down to the core. They see no obstacles, if you do they tell you exactly how to get around them. Always keep these fish babies around they are marvelous. Hint: Be patient, forgiving and make sure your kind to them. Naturally more intuitive than all other signs—perhaps even psychic.
The Night OBAMA Won
Conviction- an unshakable belief in something without need for proof or evidence. It has the word action inherent within it and pure Faith, passion and inspiration. This is our President Obama for which he stands.
Chapter 1
I considered myself a prosperity thinker so when I heard others talk about how the economy was responsible for the loss of jobs, homes, and homelessness I brushed it off as an abundance snob. Surely I thought it was just a matter of their embracing a different consciousness. It would never affect me, I knew how to retrieve right brain right thinking, walk the talk of prosperity.
The next year and a half brought a serious reality check when I found myself experiencing what I was ignoring was happening around me.
I became determined to not dance with the economic crisis anymore. I started watching CNN to get informed. I rarely watched television. That is when I first heard Obama speak. I felt a stirring in my soul unlike anything I have ever felt before. I sensed that he was the spark of hope that would take me from the fulcrum of despair to embrace a whole new wonderful life once more. Little did I know at the time how involved I would become with his campaign.
My eagerness to learn more about Obama surprised me. I had not participated in any election or campaign since Al Gore. When Al Gore lost "what he really had won "sadness came over millions of us and we lost faith that the people no longer elected our president.
"Our matches were wet with the tears of our political struggles and it seemed like we could not as of yet get our fire relit for another election we had no say in. "
Then Obama emerged with a clear message that inspired hope to guide us through these scary times. The message was for every man, woman and child in America to tend to their own fire within.
"Yes we can "was Obama way of letting us know he was ready to provide us with matches to light this fire if we trusted in him. I asked myself, could it be possible this time that we the people of the United States could unite to elect whom "we" wanted as our president?
The answers came fast and fierce. With the brilliant campaign strategy of a massive, intense internet campaign coupled with a man of truth and vision yes it was possible. "Yes We Can" became the voice of the people.
In time I came to understand that he was the turning point part that marked the era of a massive global consciousness change. History books will tell the tale of the man who emerged to catapult the world to greater peace and unity.
This is a true story of how I listened to my heart, contributed to President Obama’s election and how I jumped off the economic crises hamster wheel.
The night of the election I watched CNN on my computer for every point to insure he was winning. It was almost as every point he gained was a heartbeat pounding in my chest. He had touched my soul and I felt needed .One more state, just one more state. Oh God thank you please let him win the presidency.
Months before I found myself like the little drummer boy offering all I could in writing blogs on his behalf online. I had never done this before but I was inspired. I sent the little money I had to help him; I did my share along with millions of Americans. Everyone I spoke to was doing their share. This was more than just a presidency. This was the American people speaking out "We are the people, and he is for the people and we will do everything we can to make sure he wins for us and our children, and children’s children. We are taking our country back and placing it in the hands of this great man OBAMA. We will fight tooth and nail because we trust him.
We trusted that the umbilical cord would be severed from a government that ruled the people and now became for the people once more. Our voices loud and clear said" We are the United States of America, a people united to survive and thrive. Obama is our leader."
Some of us went online; some of us with no political background became instant experts and joined the Democratic Party system caucuses. And our children with music and computer skills hit the internet day and night. Videos, YouTube, Oprah, Whoopie and others on television, songs of grace, race and a whole mess of people fighting for what and whom we believed in, OBAMA.
.. And we sent emails, made phone calls, postcards and poured our hearts out to all who would listen.
For me, I protected him online like a mother cat protects her young. I was fierce and kind and battled head on with anyone who would stand between him and the presidency. It was not easy learning my way around CNN but, I did it.
Guided by conviction I created online names on CNN to express my feelings and truths. When a comment related to Latinos and OBAMA came up, there I was, I became Latina N Proud battling like our forefathers only this time it was online. When his patriotism was questioned I became Latina Patriot N proud. Every step, every moment became a moment to take action on OBAMA’S behalf. We believed and still do that Obama could improve the decaying American education system, health care systems and restore the dignity of the people of our nation.
It felt as if we were patriots, rebels in the American Revolution against England. This was our battle at Bunker Hill and the English were now the republicans.
The night he won I screamed from my ghetto balcony" OBAMA, OBAMA won." People flocked out onto their balconies. Latinos, Nigerians drinking in celebration, Cubans, we all came out and felt a hope we had not felt before. I remember printing pictures of his victory and handing them to my Nigerian
neighbors. They clutched the picture to their hearts and kissed the picture of OBAMA. It felt like the celebration of the birth of a child. A new era in understanding and change had begun.
Immediately after he was elected I beamed with pride at his cabinet selections. Outmoded boundaries between the Democratic Party and Republican Party that were created during the American Revolution to protect us that now only held us prisoner to a system that no longer produced the urgent results to save our country were crossed and we united in a common song.
Every single brilliant capable democrat, republican was vetted and scanned for his or her post. What a line up. People changers, our country‘s best of the best from either party. I felt that each and every one appointed was a reincarnation of a founding father who risked their life to write our "declaration of independence."YES WE CAN became a new declaration of the people.
Against all odds Abraham Lincoln enacted The Emancipation Proclamation and later the thirteenth amendment. Like Lincoln, Obama too is a visionary. But, it took decades of hardship before humanity was ready to break the racial barriers which allowed the election of Obama as our President.
Today, Jan 18, 2009 at President Obama’s inauguration celebration, history was in the making, the barriers were broken big time.
In honor of his election he was showered with love.
From every station, the nation performed on his behalf in gratitude of our new President. Yo Yo Ma, Beyonce, James Taylor, Mary J. Blige, Shakira, Queen Latifah, John Mellencamp, Bruce Springsteen. Sheryl Crow, Stevie Wonder, poets, movie stars and so many more.
When U2, an Irish band, played you could feel the love flow from their music for our president. What is this? I asked myself. An Irish band celebrating the Presidency of the United States?
That is when I felt that the world was celebrating with us and becoming united to the United States. Really, in my 56 years this was the first time I experienced a nation declare their love so openly for a president.
An impressive and eloquent writer of our time from the RAW POLITICS JAMAICA STYLES WEBLOG WROTE THESE BEAUTIFUL WORDS on January 19th, 2009:
We had come ‘from slavery to the Presidency!’
History was unfolding and even while, my silent tears did not mean much in the actual writing of this chapter, told to us through the ‘immediacy’ and global reach of the CNN and BBC news media, I had witnessed it all the same. Moved by its power and the audacity of the kind of hope that had propelled President Obama to such an important moment, I was awestruck and overwhelmed all at once. Words seemed so inadequate in giving vent to my emotions that all I could do was cry, like a small child, humbled by history’s power to self correct. I watched in
complete amazement, praying all the time, fervent in my hope for this great man on whose shoulders rested so many of the world’s ills.
With seriousness etched on his face, Barack Obama was preparing to not only take the Oath, he was preparing to lead the world and we, his throng of supporters removed by heritage, culture, nationality, language, time and even technology were all caught up in the power of the emotion. And, so I cried.
Pausing momentarily to gather myself and focus, I decided that more than anything else, my return to this blog would be marked by the momentous inauguration of President Barack Obama to the US Presidency. It symbolized a kind of achievement which allowed me to think that, notwithstanding my own personal concerns, all things were possible and that, because of that possibility we/ I could make it.
The potency of his acceptance speech and the focus on the Civil Rights Movement and the American War for Independence, as well as the Global War on Terror only served to reinforce that pride – that deep and unmistakable joy. Hope renewed and sagging spirits refreshed, the powerful words had instilled in all of us the charge, not only to Americans, to proclaim the victory in all parts of the lands in which we lived. All were joined together. The cause was universal. We were all were soldiers in the great hope of transformation.
How would it all pan out? We were not sure…yet! But one thing was certain, in this moment we were all one…And we most, certainly, could!
After all, out of many, we are one! Yes we can! Yes we did!
January 19th, 2009Raw Politics Jamaica Style
This is how millions of us were feeling and still are. The next few months were an eye opener for me about how I was living my life after his election.
Chapter 1
I considered myself a prosperity thinker so when I heard others talk about how the economy was responsible for the loss of jobs, homes, and homelessness I brushed it off as an abundance snob. Surely I thought it was just a matter of their embracing a different consciousness. It would never affect me, I knew how to retrieve right brain right thinking, walk the talk of prosperity.
The next year and a half brought a serious reality check when I found myself experiencing what I was ignoring was happening around me.
I became determined to not dance with the economic crisis anymore. I started watching CNN to get informed. I rarely watched television. That is when I first heard Obama speak. I felt a stirring in my soul unlike anything I have ever felt before. I sensed that he was the spark of hope that would take me from the fulcrum of despair to embrace a whole new wonderful life once more. Little did I know at the time how involved I would become with his campaign.
My eagerness to learn more about Obama surprised me. I had not participated in any election or campaign since Al Gore. When Al Gore lost "what he really had won "sadness came over millions of us and we lost faith that the people no longer elected our president.
"Our matches were wet with the tears of our political struggles and it seemed like we could not as of yet get our fire relit for another election we had no say in. "
Then Obama emerged with a clear message that inspired hope to guide us through these scary times. The message was for every man, woman and child in America to tend to their own fire within.
"Yes we can "was Obama way of letting us know he was ready to provide us with matches to light this fire if we trusted in him. I asked myself, could it be possible this time that we the people of the United States could unite to elect whom "we" wanted as our president?
The answers came fast and fierce. With the brilliant campaign strategy of a massive, intense internet campaign coupled with a man of truth and vision yes it was possible. "Yes We Can" became the voice of the people.
In time I came to understand that he was the turning point part that marked the era of a massive global consciousness change. History books will tell the tale of the man who emerged to catapult the world to greater peace and unity.
This is a true story of how I listened to my heart, contributed to President Obama’s election and how I jumped off the economic crises hamster wheel.
The night of the election I watched CNN on my computer for every point to insure he was winning. It was almost as every point he gained was a heartbeat pounding in my chest. He had touched my soul and I felt needed .One more state, just one more state. Oh God thank you please let him win the presidency.
Months before I found myself like the little drummer boy offering all I could in writing blogs on his behalf online. I had never done this before but I was inspired. I sent the little money I had to help him; I did my share along with millions of Americans. Everyone I spoke to was doing their share. This was more than just a presidency. This was the American people speaking out "We are the people, and he is for the people and we will do everything we can to make sure he wins for us and our children, and children’s children. We are taking our country back and placing it in the hands of this great man OBAMA. We will fight tooth and nail because we trust him.
We trusted that the umbilical cord would be severed from a government that ruled the people and now became for the people once more. Our voices loud and clear said" We are the United States of America, a people united to survive and thrive. Obama is our leader."
Some of us went online; some of us with no political background became instant experts and joined the Democratic Party system caucuses. And our children with music and computer skills hit the internet day and night. Videos, YouTube, Oprah, Whoopie and others on television, songs of grace, race and a whole mess of people fighting for what and whom we believed in, OBAMA.
.. And we sent emails, made phone calls, postcards and poured our hearts out to all who would listen.
For me, I protected him online like a mother cat protects her young. I was fierce and kind and battled head on with anyone who would stand between him and the presidency. It was not easy learning my way around CNN but, I did it.
Guided by conviction I created online names on CNN to express my feelings and truths. When a comment related to Latinos and OBAMA came up, there I was, I became Latina N Proud battling like our forefathers only this time it was online. When his patriotism was questioned I became Latina Patriot N proud. Every step, every moment became a moment to take action on OBAMA’S behalf. We believed and still do that Obama could improve the decaying American education system, health care systems and restore the dignity of the people of our nation.
It felt as if we were patriots, rebels in the American Revolution against England. This was our battle at Bunker Hill and the English were now the republicans.
The night he won I screamed from my ghetto balcony" OBAMA, OBAMA won." People flocked out onto their balconies. Latinos, Nigerians drinking in celebration, Cubans, we all came out and felt a hope we had not felt before. I remember printing pictures of his victory and handing them to my Nigerian
neighbors. They clutched the picture to their hearts and kissed the picture of OBAMA. It felt like the celebration of the birth of a child. A new era in understanding and change had begun.
Immediately after he was elected I beamed with pride at his cabinet selections. Outmoded boundaries between the Democratic Party and Republican Party that were created during the American Revolution to protect us that now only held us prisoner to a system that no longer produced the urgent results to save our country were crossed and we united in a common song.
Every single brilliant capable democrat, republican was vetted and scanned for his or her post. What a line up. People changers, our country‘s best of the best from either party. I felt that each and every one appointed was a reincarnation of a founding father who risked their life to write our "declaration of independence."YES WE CAN became a new declaration of the people.
Against all odds Abraham Lincoln enacted The Emancipation Proclamation and later the thirteenth amendment. Like Lincoln, Obama too is a visionary. But, it took decades of hardship before humanity was ready to break the racial barriers which allowed the election of Obama as our President.
Today, Jan 18, 2009 at President Obama’s inauguration celebration, history was in the making, the barriers were broken big time.
In honor of his election he was showered with love.
From every station, the nation performed on his behalf in gratitude of our new President. Yo Yo Ma, Beyonce, James Taylor, Mary J. Blige, Shakira, Queen Latifah, John Mellencamp, Bruce Springsteen. Sheryl Crow, Stevie Wonder, poets, movie stars and so many more.
When U2, an Irish band, played you could feel the love flow from their music for our president. What is this? I asked myself. An Irish band celebrating the Presidency of the United States?
That is when I felt that the world was celebrating with us and becoming united to the United States. Really, in my 56 years this was the first time I experienced a nation declare their love so openly for a president.
An impressive and eloquent writer of our time from the RAW POLITICS JAMAICA STYLES WEBLOG WROTE THESE BEAUTIFUL WORDS on January 19th, 2009:
We had come ‘from slavery to the Presidency!’
History was unfolding and even while, my silent tears did not mean much in the actual writing of this chapter, told to us through the ‘immediacy’ and global reach of the CNN and BBC news media, I had witnessed it all the same. Moved by its power and the audacity of the kind of hope that had propelled President Obama to such an important moment, I was awestruck and overwhelmed all at once. Words seemed so inadequate in giving vent to my emotions that all I could do was cry, like a small child, humbled by history’s power to self correct. I watched in
complete amazement, praying all the time, fervent in my hope for this great man on whose shoulders rested so many of the world’s ills.
With seriousness etched on his face, Barack Obama was preparing to not only take the Oath, he was preparing to lead the world and we, his throng of supporters removed by heritage, culture, nationality, language, time and even technology were all caught up in the power of the emotion. And, so I cried.
Pausing momentarily to gather myself and focus, I decided that more than anything else, my return to this blog would be marked by the momentous inauguration of President Barack Obama to the US Presidency. It symbolized a kind of achievement which allowed me to think that, notwithstanding my own personal concerns, all things were possible and that, because of that possibility we/ I could make it.
The potency of his acceptance speech and the focus on the Civil Rights Movement and the American War for Independence, as well as the Global War on Terror only served to reinforce that pride – that deep and unmistakable joy. Hope renewed and sagging spirits refreshed, the powerful words had instilled in all of us the charge, not only to Americans, to proclaim the victory in all parts of the lands in which we lived. All were joined together. The cause was universal. We were all were soldiers in the great hope of transformation.
How would it all pan out? We were not sure…yet! But one thing was certain, in this moment we were all one…And we most, certainly, could!
After all, out of many, we are one! Yes we can! Yes we did!
January 19th, 2009Raw Politics Jamaica Style
This is how millions of us were feeling and still are. The next few months were an eye opener for me about how I was living my life after his election.
The Rock and the River
The Rock and the River By E. E. Song
Chapter 1
The birds were singing as they do early in the morning splashing in the water, their river. You could see and touch the early mist that had just bathed all the leaves, all the creatures. The little Rock smiled as she had made this her home long ago here by the river bank.
Every morning the Rock stood still and giggled as the River flowed all over her. Then the sun would come out and warm her up. She felt cozy, at home. Unlike other days where this happened today was different. The Rock could feel her muddy home was just about to cut her free, cut her loose so she could just flow and ride the River, her friend.
The River had told her about many other Rocks like her not far and the Rock was delighted listening every day to the Rivers stories. Stories of his travels through moss, rocks, trees and the Rock cooed and listened.
There he was again the River. He approached with a rush and splashed the little Rock. He said, “little Rock today I will set you free.” Today you will cut loose your muddy home and I will carry you far away to lands where Rocks reach to kiss the sky, to lands where I splash the very bottom of enormous beautiful rocks by the ocean at the Oregon Coast.
The little Rock remembered she had lived there long ago with Mother Rock, Father Rock , Brother and sister rocks, in Coos Bay, Oregon. She became sad because the Oregon coast was once her home. She remembered Astoria, the Ocean and moving on big foamy, flowing tides that carried her and her Rock family to Rockaway beach. There she lived with her rock family and had little pebbles of her own. They all lived on a gigantic rock with starfish cousins, moss friends, mussels and squiggly crab families. It was at Rockaway beach where she first became free. It was a fisherman and his lady that set her free for the first time.
The fisherman and his lady began knocking off mussels off the Rocks. The little Rock was lodged tight between many family Rocks and mussels. She felt safe there, secure. It was her home after all. Her brother the stone Rock broke off first. The little Rock screamed to see such a man Rock, so strong break so easily. He was lost to her now, in the ocean floating far away from her.
Gus, the fisherman knocked his hammer straight on the other rocks knocking mussel after mussel for his food. His lady, Mercedes, picked up the mussels and put them in her bucket.
Crash, the little Rock fell. Mercedes felt a jolt in her heart after seeing this. She felt this was no ordinary rock. She quietly put the little Rock in her bucket without Gus seeing her.
When they got home Mercedes snuck the little Rock in and placed her in the most beautiful garden. She said, “you will be safe here little Rock. “
For some time the little Rock was safe and cozy. Wormy friends would dance under her feet and the Oregon rain reminded her of the majestic Ocean, the Ocean she could never forget.
When you stand in front of an ocean you are humbled and surely you feel God’s presence there. That is how the little Rock felt.
Mercedes came out every other day to spray the flowers. And she and the little Rock spoke, like the way it used to be before rocks were silent. They exchanged stories of their families, the places they had been, and the beautiful sights they had seen and were just silly.
The sun was little seen in Oregon and the little Rock became sick. She started dreaming of places far away where she could feel warm. She told Mercedes. Mercedes told her of a wonderful place. A place that was warm and wet and sunny. The little Rock was listening.
Where is this place, asked the little Rock? Well in Texas, said Mercedes. There is a river there I know you will love. It is in Wimberley, Texas and you will fall in love and never, ever come back. “When will you take me there,” said the little Rock. “Soon, said Mercedes, soon.”
Years went by and Mercedes grew older. The little Rock stayed young. She did not age. Every day she asked Mercedes to take her there to this Wimberley, to her River, for by now Mercedes had told her so much of this river that tempts all to jump in on warm Texas summer days that she, little rock, started to fall in love with this river.
Gus , Mercedes husband,became suspicious of Mercedes walk in the garden for she would stay for hours and hours.
One day he followed Mercedes and spied on her and the little Rock. As soon as Mercedes left Gus picked up the little Rock and threw her in his truck. He drove for miles and miles thinking where he could throw her. What would he say to Mercedes? After all the little Rock was just a friend, she never harmed anyone.
He stopped at a gas station that was by a small post office right outside of town. As he got out of his truck he said to the little Rock, “speak, I know you can speak, I heard you talking to Mercedes.” But the little Rock was silent. You see only those with pure hearts and thoughts can talk to rocks.
Gus was angry. He tossed the rock as far as he could throw her. The little Rock landed right by the post office never to see her friend Mercedes again.
Chapter 2
The kids were out on a field trip that day from school. Nicky was collecting rocks and things for his science project. He stumbled and fell right on top of the little Rock. “Ouch, you stepped on me.” What? “Wait, you can talk, said Nicky? “Yes I can, so what’ your excuse?” “But you’re a rock, and one with an attitude”, said Nicky.
“Yeah, well if you had been through all that I have been through you would have an attitude too”, said the little Rock. Nicky laughed and they started to exchange stories. It was getting late and he had to be back in school. Little Rock said to Nicky, I will be here for you always. Please find a way if you can to send me to Wimberley, I really wish to live there. I have a date with a friend called the River and he has been waiting for me for quite some time now, said little Rock.
Ok, ok little Rock, I will find a way, I promise, said Nicky.
Two days went by and in the late afternoon when Nicky came out of school he came over to see little Rock. He had his backpack with him and pulled out a box. He told little Rock to trust him. She did. He lovingly kissed the little Rock and put her in the box addressed to Wimberley, Texas care of the The River. What a clever boy Nicky was.
The box arrived in Wimberley and the postmaster laughed when he saw who it was addressed to, Care of the River, Wimberley, Texas. He took the box out and opened it. There he saw the little Rock cuddled in a corner with big lovely kind eyes smiling back at him. It was as if all those times he skipped rocks as a kid flashed back into his mind at that moment. He knew what he had to do.
Five o’clock came and he walked down to the River. Under his arm was little Rock. He gently placed her there waiting for her love, the River.
The first time little rock saw the River she rolled herself right in it. The first time she was knocked around and struck other rocks and trees. She did not care. She was happy again. She knew that someday the River would take her back to Oregon, to the coast to see her children the little pebbles she left behind.
“Little Rock, said the river ,are you listening? Are you ready? “ “Yes River, sorry I was day dreaming.”
“It may or may not be easy little Rock but I will stay with you forever. I will always be there. Just trust me, break free of your little muddy home and just come with me. Little Rock stood up and proudly dusted herself off. “Ok, I’m ready,” said little Rock.
With a blink of an eye little Rock was freed. As she tossed and turned the river roared and laughed to see her so happy. With a gush of water he tossed her up and down through moss and leaves, Brother Rivers and streams, father brooks, waterfalls and big, big Rocks that seemed to kiss the sky.
They finally reached the Oregon coast and little Rock could see the rocks in Coos bay reaching up to the sky in prayer. She made it to Astoria, then Rockaway beach. And there she saw her little pebbles. She kissed them and told them of her many journeys, her friend Mercedes, and the little boy Nicky who mailed her to the River in Wimberley, Texas.
“ The pebbles laughed so hard they skipped all on their own. “
The time came for little Rock to flow once more with the River. It was time. So she kissed the pebbles with all her heart and lived happily ever after with the River.
And the little Rock was happy again.
Copyright 2008, All rights reserved, revised 12.08.10
Chapter 1
The birds were singing as they do early in the morning splashing in the water, their river. You could see and touch the early mist that had just bathed all the leaves, all the creatures. The little Rock smiled as she had made this her home long ago here by the river bank.
Every morning the Rock stood still and giggled as the River flowed all over her. Then the sun would come out and warm her up. She felt cozy, at home. Unlike other days where this happened today was different. The Rock could feel her muddy home was just about to cut her free, cut her loose so she could just flow and ride the River, her friend.
The River had told her about many other Rocks like her not far and the Rock was delighted listening every day to the Rivers stories. Stories of his travels through moss, rocks, trees and the Rock cooed and listened.
There he was again the River. He approached with a rush and splashed the little Rock. He said, “little Rock today I will set you free.” Today you will cut loose your muddy home and I will carry you far away to lands where Rocks reach to kiss the sky, to lands where I splash the very bottom of enormous beautiful rocks by the ocean at the Oregon Coast.
The little Rock remembered she had lived there long ago with Mother Rock, Father Rock , Brother and sister rocks, in Coos Bay, Oregon. She became sad because the Oregon coast was once her home. She remembered Astoria, the Ocean and moving on big foamy, flowing tides that carried her and her Rock family to Rockaway beach. There she lived with her rock family and had little pebbles of her own. They all lived on a gigantic rock with starfish cousins, moss friends, mussels and squiggly crab families. It was at Rockaway beach where she first became free. It was a fisherman and his lady that set her free for the first time.
The fisherman and his lady began knocking off mussels off the Rocks. The little Rock was lodged tight between many family Rocks and mussels. She felt safe there, secure. It was her home after all. Her brother the stone Rock broke off first. The little Rock screamed to see such a man Rock, so strong break so easily. He was lost to her now, in the ocean floating far away from her.
Gus, the fisherman knocked his hammer straight on the other rocks knocking mussel after mussel for his food. His lady, Mercedes, picked up the mussels and put them in her bucket.
Crash, the little Rock fell. Mercedes felt a jolt in her heart after seeing this. She felt this was no ordinary rock. She quietly put the little Rock in her bucket without Gus seeing her.
When they got home Mercedes snuck the little Rock in and placed her in the most beautiful garden. She said, “you will be safe here little Rock. “
For some time the little Rock was safe and cozy. Wormy friends would dance under her feet and the Oregon rain reminded her of the majestic Ocean, the Ocean she could never forget.
When you stand in front of an ocean you are humbled and surely you feel God’s presence there. That is how the little Rock felt.
Mercedes came out every other day to spray the flowers. And she and the little Rock spoke, like the way it used to be before rocks were silent. They exchanged stories of their families, the places they had been, and the beautiful sights they had seen and were just silly.
The sun was little seen in Oregon and the little Rock became sick. She started dreaming of places far away where she could feel warm. She told Mercedes. Mercedes told her of a wonderful place. A place that was warm and wet and sunny. The little Rock was listening.
Where is this place, asked the little Rock? Well in Texas, said Mercedes. There is a river there I know you will love. It is in Wimberley, Texas and you will fall in love and never, ever come back. “When will you take me there,” said the little Rock. “Soon, said Mercedes, soon.”
Years went by and Mercedes grew older. The little Rock stayed young. She did not age. Every day she asked Mercedes to take her there to this Wimberley, to her River, for by now Mercedes had told her so much of this river that tempts all to jump in on warm Texas summer days that she, little rock, started to fall in love with this river.
Gus , Mercedes husband,became suspicious of Mercedes walk in the garden for she would stay for hours and hours.
One day he followed Mercedes and spied on her and the little Rock. As soon as Mercedes left Gus picked up the little Rock and threw her in his truck. He drove for miles and miles thinking where he could throw her. What would he say to Mercedes? After all the little Rock was just a friend, she never harmed anyone.
He stopped at a gas station that was by a small post office right outside of town. As he got out of his truck he said to the little Rock, “speak, I know you can speak, I heard you talking to Mercedes.” But the little Rock was silent. You see only those with pure hearts and thoughts can talk to rocks.
Gus was angry. He tossed the rock as far as he could throw her. The little Rock landed right by the post office never to see her friend Mercedes again.
Chapter 2
The kids were out on a field trip that day from school. Nicky was collecting rocks and things for his science project. He stumbled and fell right on top of the little Rock. “Ouch, you stepped on me.” What? “Wait, you can talk, said Nicky? “Yes I can, so what’ your excuse?” “But you’re a rock, and one with an attitude”, said Nicky.
“Yeah, well if you had been through all that I have been through you would have an attitude too”, said the little Rock. Nicky laughed and they started to exchange stories. It was getting late and he had to be back in school. Little Rock said to Nicky, I will be here for you always. Please find a way if you can to send me to Wimberley, I really wish to live there. I have a date with a friend called the River and he has been waiting for me for quite some time now, said little Rock.
Ok, ok little Rock, I will find a way, I promise, said Nicky.
Two days went by and in the late afternoon when Nicky came out of school he came over to see little Rock. He had his backpack with him and pulled out a box. He told little Rock to trust him. She did. He lovingly kissed the little Rock and put her in the box addressed to Wimberley, Texas care of the The River. What a clever boy Nicky was.
The box arrived in Wimberley and the postmaster laughed when he saw who it was addressed to, Care of the River, Wimberley, Texas. He took the box out and opened it. There he saw the little Rock cuddled in a corner with big lovely kind eyes smiling back at him. It was as if all those times he skipped rocks as a kid flashed back into his mind at that moment. He knew what he had to do.
Five o’clock came and he walked down to the River. Under his arm was little Rock. He gently placed her there waiting for her love, the River.
The first time little rock saw the River she rolled herself right in it. The first time she was knocked around and struck other rocks and trees. She did not care. She was happy again. She knew that someday the River would take her back to Oregon, to the coast to see her children the little pebbles she left behind.
“Little Rock, said the river ,are you listening? Are you ready? “ “Yes River, sorry I was day dreaming.”
“It may or may not be easy little Rock but I will stay with you forever. I will always be there. Just trust me, break free of your little muddy home and just come with me. Little Rock stood up and proudly dusted herself off. “Ok, I’m ready,” said little Rock.
With a blink of an eye little Rock was freed. As she tossed and turned the river roared and laughed to see her so happy. With a gush of water he tossed her up and down through moss and leaves, Brother Rivers and streams, father brooks, waterfalls and big, big Rocks that seemed to kiss the sky.
They finally reached the Oregon coast and little Rock could see the rocks in Coos bay reaching up to the sky in prayer. She made it to Astoria, then Rockaway beach. And there she saw her little pebbles. She kissed them and told them of her many journeys, her friend Mercedes, and the little boy Nicky who mailed her to the River in Wimberley, Texas.
“ The pebbles laughed so hard they skipped all on their own. “
The time came for little Rock to flow once more with the River. It was time. So she kissed the pebbles with all her heart and lived happily ever after with the River.
And the little Rock was happy again.
Copyright 2008, All rights reserved, revised 12.08.10
The Credit Bureaus: Are they putting us in harms way?
As the economy requires creative solutions many business are outsourcing to foreign countries. Did you know the credit bureaus such as Equifax are doing it too?
Here is a typical day in the life of Marie who is in the process of buying a home. She has a window of opportunity to get the home of her dreams but she must be able to have FICA scores which qualify her and a credit history to confirm the sale to her. She also decided to buy a new Android phone. Her credit is good at least that was the last time she checked last year (average consumer). She calls to review her product she purchased from Equifax called ID Protect so that they unlock her file for both the Cellular phone Company and the mortgage company to review her credit.
This is what she experienced.
Marie: Hello my name is Marie and I would like you to please unlock my file for 2 weeks as I am purchasing a home.
Joe: My name is Joe (not his real name he is in India
Marie: I am sorry but I can barely understand you, may I please get a supervisor or someone that speaks English? No offense I just do not understand your accent.
I know nothing of a freeze.
Joe: That is ok. I will transfer you.
Marie waits. And waits ….then the line goes dead.
She calls back and Jane (of course not her real name ) answers with a worse accent than Joe and Marie states her problem. Jane asks for Marie’s confirmation number for the freeze. Marie answers she has no confirmation number as she never ordered the freeze on her file.
Once more Jane says she cannot help Marie as without a confirmation number Marie will have to send a letter stating she wants the freeze removed. Marie asks where their office is located. Jane states it is confidential and cannot give her, Marie, that information.
By now Marie is asking for someone in the United States
If this ever happens to you it is a horror. Marie of course misses the opportunity for her new home and does not get a new cell phone as neither creditor can access her credit file. She also does not know who put the freeze on her account.
It is seriously becoming more prevalent that outsourcing is causing more problems than the consumer understands. In fact, several foreign interests have actually paid for individuals to sell their social security number in partnerships for prosperities, homes and even cash up to 10k or more so that an IBC, International Business Corporation entity seeking credit by a supposed legal entity ( RUN BY ILLEGALS) can use your good credit to build their companies credit. They then operate legally in the United States
How do you protect yourself? For starters beware of any offers from the credit bureaus that are handled outside the US
These are desperate times and many are going through financial crises. Please protect yourself from any foreign interests.
Got your Back my lady friends.
EE Song
The Trojan Horse
The Trojan horse, We Have All Had One
In ancient Grecian times a Trojan horse was delivered with the intent to rage war, kill and deliver the prize, Helen, back to her owner. Evil was lurking inside. The gift was received and accepted. Little did the receivers know it would cause their downfall.
In modern times to deliver a Trojan horse means about the same. You are accepting of gifts or nice gestures. These nice gestures at times come with hidden deadly agendas. Soon you are out of a job, a husband or an opportunity.
I found myself referring to my friends as pre-Trojan horse and post. All those that I had absolute trust in before the Trojan horse I still trusted 100% all those post-Trojan I put them through a series of trust meter tests.
What is a trust meter? Well as an individual proves they are accountable, compassionate or trustworthy they get points. When they reach a certain amount of points then they are trusted at higher levels.
This is not a perfect system but it helps to empower you so you are not the victim of any Trojan horses.
Best life to live is the use of the platter. Always be careful what you put on your platter, be discreet with your personal affairs and share your personal items with those that have high scores on your trust meter.
Yes, there will be times when someone escapes your meter reading:
When your husband of 30 years or so decides he wants a divorce and you had no idea why till your best friend Betty is seen with him around town.
Or when you had a hot deal offered to you by your investment broker and you lost big time and he/she made big commissions on “puts” with your stock.
Keep in mind that it is far worse to have not trusted at all. In time, these Trojan horses go away and “do themselves in”, trust me on this one.
Best rule of thumb is what I saw in a children’s movie. In the movie there was a bag lady who befriended a nice young boy. At first the young boy was afraid of her but in time they became friends. When the young boy asked her why she lived like this, she answered that once she was a cellist in a big orchestra and her husband had left her. She was so divested she became a bag lady. The young man answered “you are like this bird here in a cage, if you stay in the cage you will never be free , you seem protected , but you will never be loved again either. “
Trust, love and go about your life with little regrets.
EE Song
Trading Bullies: The EEOC Good, Bad and Ugly
Trading Bullies: The EEOC Good, Bad and Ugly
This is dedicated to all my lady friends out there whom have experienced sexual harassment at some point in their lives. The first step to freedom is to stop being politically correct and adopt a Texan “call it like it is attitude.”
This whole experience with the EEOC is like the movie “Sleeping with the Enemy”.
You put your whole heart out there thinking someone will listen and make it right.
Well it isn’t going to happen like that exactly. You will need to keep your pride and integrity in tact for the long haul nowhere.
Initially I am sure the EEOC was set up to protect the rights of others whom have experienced harassment. As of late that whole scenario has changed. The EEOC themselves have become the bully.
Have you ever tried to process a claim through the EEOC for many, many months, or up to a year or more and left tattered from frustration and disbelief? Read on and weep the stories that follow:
Marie worked at a hotel. Her boss, Terry, was a woman also. When Terry moved to management she had no idea that her employer’s contractor would sexually assault her daily, break into her condo and she would be forced to call 911. Although management knew this had happened she was threatened to keep her mouth shut or lose her job.
She did, but not Marie.
One evening when Marie was working the contractor showed up drunk with a member of the band that was playing at the hotel. The contractor grabbed Marie’s bottom and started with profanities. Marie slapped him and asked him to stop.
Marie told her boss Terry what had happened. Three days later Marie who had gotten a promotion to quality control was fired.
Marie filed an EEOC report and with the state of Texas
Results: The Case worker determined that sexual harassment never occurred , ignored the 911 call, ignored the locks having to be changed and paid for by management at Terry’s condo o property after the contractor had broken in, ignored the fact that Marie had just been promoted and there was no reason for her to be fired and no cause. The case worker claimed that “the EEOC determines criteria differently.”
Wow. What is so different about a 911 call made by a woman to save her life, evidence of her Condo broken into and management paying for her new locks and never firing the guy?
The long and short is be prepared to be bullied by the same institution that was set up to protect you, the EEOC. They are not your friend and their job is to ignore or use technical jargon to not process your case and in the end leaving you frustrated and sadder than when you started.
Prepare yourself, but do fight for your dignity and right to work in harmony.
If anyone is interested and has the skills to sue the EEOC as a group please contact me.
We are the Bagua
Lady Shui
Feng Shui Guide , Frequency Mentor, Writer, Trance writer, Medical Intuitive, Innovator, Promoter , Healer
What is a BAGUA: It is a life compass.
Wikipedia defines the Bagua map as an energy map. A tool used to map a room or location and see how the different sections correspond to different aspects in one's life. These sections called “guas” are believed to relate to every area or aspect of life and are divided into such categories as fame, relationships/marriage, children/creativity, helpful people/travel, career, inner knowledge, family/ancestors/health, and wealth/blessings.
But the Bagua is much more than that. It is a life force energy map of optimum colors and frequencies in perfect balance that can be used to create balanced flow of Chi, Prana, in a human being as well as homes, land , families, and business entities. The Bagua is also a map of protection, direction and geomancy. Inherent within the map you also find the directions such as North , South, East, West and their frequencies, the balance of Yin , female energy and Yang, the male energy, within us and all things.
Have you ever looked at something so many times, a movie, a book and had that Ahaa moment? This time there was something so profound , so simple, that you wondered how you did not see it the first time you fell in love with Feng Shui. Ok since we become what we focus on and this has become the mainstream, then how about you focus on this truth? YOU ARE THE BAGUA.
We are the BAGUA. Look at the diagram. See the body parts. What happens when we see this body in the Gua? We realize that focusing attention and even meditating on the BAGUA we become “one with the BAGUA”.
Like the movie The Secret, every direction begins to manifest in perfect order for you. Let’s try this for two weeks. Meditate on the BAGUA. The whole Ba Gua. What starts to unfold before you is that somehow you start being connected to the body area, colors and situations that repair that very same area you consider having problems with in your life. All of a sudden the astrological sign that dominates that skill comes into your life. The situation begins to right itself . This is possible when you are open to receive, when you meditate on the BAGUA it helps you become the Whole person you deserve and want to display to the world. That whole person everyone wonders about, ask questions about. You act, think and are now congruent in word and deeds.
Being congruent is synonymous with harmony. When we are in balance, in harmony we become “ the prayer”. Da Vinci knew this when he drew the interdimensional man.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Social Media Sites Predators & Stalkers
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN VICTIMIZED BY SOMEONE LIKE THIS ?
So your kid just signed you up for a social media site like match.com. He/she thinks you need to be more social or find the love of your life. You give.
The emails start poring in from everywhere even though you set your filters for only certain types of men , within a certain distance to contact you. Note: ladies match.com is the worst for technical errors they will not take responsibility for any errors. What does that mean? It means that if you want a guy over 6 feet , you will get men under 6 feet.. Want a certain race or religion? Forget it you will get all kinds of races.
Not more than 500 miles away from where you are? Forget it you can expect emails from everywhere. Try another social site ladies.
And now the heart felt worst happens just a few days before Christmas.
You are innocently online and get a romantic Italian writing you wonderful things in Italian and English you want to hear. Little did you know he stalks and preys on women for a living.
OK so you enjoy his romantic ramblings, you even give him credit for telling you he loves you right away although this is a red flag. You want to believe him. , in fact he tells you he is an Antiques dealer who is financially comfortable who is visiting Europe, Glasgow he says is in London. You laugh because you know Glasgow is in Scotland, London is in England. More red flags.
He tells you a hacker got into his match.com that he is really from Sun City, Arizona. That is how he sets you up to begin with so you do not suspect he is the hacker, he is the stacker, he is the predator and you my dear are now his prey.
He tells you his account is frozen and he and his son will be there for Christmas with you and your family. he says he will get his airline ticket soon. He pays close attention to everything you write to him so he can bait you in some more. But he gets sloppy and you realize he is online almost all the time. Hmmm?
So you finally get presents for him and his teenage son Carlo. You ask him for a date when he is arriving. He says he is at the airport and needs $1250 dollars as he does not have enough cash available to get his tickets.
He claims a client in the USA is going to buy antiques from him and will wire money to you on his behalf. Hmm?
He claims he only asked you for money so he can fly out with his son to see you on Christmas.He then asks you for a Chase bank account to transfer money into. You begin to get that he is putting you in harms way.
Your heart begins to heart. You want to believe, then the worse happens. You are so stressed by this you have a heart attack. You tell him your are going to the hospital (Yes this really happened ). He gives you a foreign number to call cause maybe he has a conscience after all ( no he does not). Here is the number he gave her to call ( real number by the way) as he claims he doe snot have calling card: 447045723340, HIS NAME IS ALVISE ALONSO (real name? maybe), Yahoo messenger & email alvisealonso@yahoo.com .
By now you are so disgusted and exhausted you finally get you have been humiliated in front of your family been HAD, so SAD and on Christmas.
Ladies you have just been stalked, preyed upon used and your sweet loving feelings stomped on by a professional stalker, predator,he does not care about you or your family.He does not care if he just was responsible for your heart attack.His intention is to hurt you, and steal not just your dignity but any money you have. Beware.
Stay safe ladies they are out there, This Angels got your back....
EE Song
So your kid just signed you up for a social media site like match.com. He/she thinks you need to be more social or find the love of your life. You give.
The emails start poring in from everywhere even though you set your filters for only certain types of men , within a certain distance to contact you. Note: ladies match.com is the worst for technical errors they will not take responsibility for any errors. What does that mean? It means that if you want a guy over 6 feet , you will get men under 6 feet.. Want a certain race or religion? Forget it you will get all kinds of races.
Not more than 500 miles away from where you are? Forget it you can expect emails from everywhere. Try another social site ladies.
And now the heart felt worst happens just a few days before Christmas.
You are innocently online and get a romantic Italian writing you wonderful things in Italian and English you want to hear. Little did you know he stalks and preys on women for a living.
OK so you enjoy his romantic ramblings, you even give him credit for telling you he loves you right away although this is a red flag. You want to believe him. , in fact he tells you he is an Antiques dealer who is financially comfortable who is visiting Europe, Glasgow he says is in London. You laugh because you know Glasgow is in Scotland, London is in England. More red flags.
He tells you a hacker got into his match.com that he is really from Sun City, Arizona. That is how he sets you up to begin with so you do not suspect he is the hacker, he is the stacker, he is the predator and you my dear are now his prey.
He tells you his account is frozen and he and his son will be there for Christmas with you and your family. he says he will get his airline ticket soon. He pays close attention to everything you write to him so he can bait you in some more. But he gets sloppy and you realize he is online almost all the time. Hmmm?
So you finally get presents for him and his teenage son Carlo. You ask him for a date when he is arriving. He says he is at the airport and needs $1250 dollars as he does not have enough cash available to get his tickets.
He claims a client in the USA is going to buy antiques from him and will wire money to you on his behalf. Hmm?
He claims he only asked you for money so he can fly out with his son to see you on Christmas.He then asks you for a Chase bank account to transfer money into. You begin to get that he is putting you in harms way.
Your heart begins to heart. You want to believe, then the worse happens. You are so stressed by this you have a heart attack. You tell him your are going to the hospital (Yes this really happened ). He gives you a foreign number to call cause maybe he has a conscience after all ( no he does not). Here is the number he gave her to call ( real number by the way) as he claims he doe snot have calling card: 447045723340, HIS NAME IS ALVISE ALONSO (real name? maybe), Yahoo messenger & email alvisealonso@yahoo.com .
By now you are so disgusted and exhausted you finally get you have been humiliated in front of your family been HAD, so SAD and on Christmas.
Ladies you have just been stalked, preyed upon used and your sweet loving feelings stomped on by a professional stalker, predator,he does not care about you or your family.He does not care if he just was responsible for your heart attack.His intention is to hurt you, and steal not just your dignity but any money you have. Beware.
Stay safe ladies they are out there, This Angels got your back....
EE Song
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